Saturday, April 23, 2011
Chucky Mullins was born on July 8, 1969 in Russellville, Al. It is a very small town in northwest Alabama. His life started out with adversity at a very young age. His father left soon after he was born and he never got a chance to meet him. You would think that would be hard enough for a kid to deal with while he was growing up. But he still had his mother. Single moms are tremendous women that have to take on a greater role. I'm sure that Chucky became very close with his mother. I'm sure he had no idea what would happen to him next. Unfortunately for Chucky his mother passed away when he was 12 years old. The only family he had left in town was his brother. I can't even begin to imagine what that would be like and especially at a young age. He still had a great attitude and was determined not to give up at his early age. Chucky took it upon himself to overcome the situation and not to let it stop him. He actually went to his coach Carver Phillips and ask if he could live with him and his wife Karen. Mr. Phillips worked at the recreation center and had befriended Chucky. Even though they had two children of their own he quickly worked out the paperwork to become his legal guardian and they also took in his brother.
Chucky was always a smaller guy but put his heart into everything he did. He excelled in football as a defensive back with his hometown Tigers. His coach sent his video out to several different colleges. Chucky had heard of Billy Brewer and had decided he wanted to play for him at Ole Miss. Coach Brewer was undecided on whether to give him a scholarship. He told this story at this year's banquet of his recruitment. He said that he had a visit with Chucky in his office. He stated he told him he was full and had no more scholarships. He said he put his elbows up to his desk and told him not to pass up on him. Coach Brewer said no other player had ever done this. "But Chucky looked me right in the eye and kept telling me that if we gave him a scholarship, he would earn it, and that we wouldn't be sorry. He told me he'd do anything I'd ask, and he'd work hard to get bigger, stronger and faster." Coach Brewer ended up giving him the scholarship and stated he never regretted it.
Trea Southerland was his roommate as a freshman as they both started out at Ole Miss. He said that they immediately clicked. He described him as a person that you just want to be around and he made you feel better. He said that Chucky only had one small bag of clothes and a few other things. He said he didn't even have sheets to go over his mattress in the dorm. He stated he slipped off with another teammate and bought him some new sheets for his bed. He said that whenever Chucky found his bed he wanted to know who did it and jokingly stated he was going to get them.
I can remember on his documentary that all of his teammates loved him. I specifically remember one player that was on offense that said he would hit you just as hard in practice as he did during a game. He said, you just could not be mad at him even after he hit you. He said he would help you up and smiling real big tell you Chucky loves you man. The player said he just knew he was giving his all with everything he did. Just all the stories about his life just has to make you admire him that much more for never letting anything get to him. It also shows you how hard he worked every single day of his life. He did everything at full speed. He was truly respected and loved by everyone on the team. He was a true leader!
"After he got hurt, all Chucky could move were his lips and his eyes, but they were always smiling. He never asked why me? He was a positive influence on everyone he encountered. He kept fighting. He wanted to live.”, Said Coach Brewer. Chucky would stay in a Memphis hospital until later that year. Ole Miss ended up playing in the Liberty Bowl which is played in Memphis. They pulled some strings and was able to get him to the game in an ambulance to talk to the players during pregame. The motto for the year was Its Time! Coach Brewer leaned over to Chucky and asked him if he had any words for the team and he softly whispered to him It's Time! If you watch the video it will send chills down your spine. It is just such an amazing moment. I'm not sure any other pregame speech could top it. The whole team started chanting It's Time!
Chucky was moved to the University of Alabama Birmingham to the Spain Center to finish his rehab. Ole Miss raised over $1 million to help support him and all his medical bills. The city of Oxford donated land close to campus and built a house for him. He never gave up his dreams. He eventually made it back to the practice fields to watch his former teammates play. He also started back school and wanted to become a football coach. He ended up completing a semester of school. Then one morning while getting ready for school Chucky passed out and was rushed to the hospital. He was never responsive after that moment. Chucky Mullins died on May 6, 1991 due to complications from his spinal cord injury. His story is filled with courage. He made it through every tragedy that occurred throughout his life with great character. So many people in his situation could have easily given up. Even early on in his life, but that was not him."I've never been a quitter. It's not in my heart to give up. I don't think it should be in anybody's heart. I may give out,, but I'll never give up." - Chucky Mullins.
I could not have said it better myself. I hope that now you have a better perspective about who Chucky Mullins really was. He wasn't just an average football player with a tragic ending to his life. He had a very high character and affected everyone around him throughout his life in a positive way. He never stopped smiling, even during the hardest times. I cried before my injury because of the sad story that I realized it was. After being paralyzed I looked at the story in a totally different light. I realized that he would not want anybody to cry for him. He only wanted to lift people up. I understand that a lot better now. He got to see the different perspective of life and how precious it is. No matter what your going through, if you stay positive and appreciate simply being alive then you can make it through anything. I see his story as beating the odds throughout everything until he passed away. Even that has not stopped him from being a great motivator today. I'm also at peace thinking about him running around right now, with a big smile on his face looking down on all of us. I could just see him saying "Never quit!"
Please take time to watch this video to see the other side of the story. It shows the effects that it had on Brad Gaines for the rest of his life. I have met Brad at the Chucky Mullins award banquet. He attends this every year. He is a very tremendous man.
A few extra quotes and notes that I was unable to fit into the story.
I highly recommend that you purchase the documentary of Chucky Mullins. It is called Undefeated: the Chucky Mullins story. You can find it at http://www.chuckymullins.com/
What is Chucky Mullins legacy?
"Courage," Brewer says simply. "Chucky epitomized courage against all odds."
"We were from totally different backgrounds. We were brought together by a terrible tragedy, and we got to be close friends. Not a day goes by I don't think of him, several times a day. I still miss him. " -Brad Gaines
"Chucky's legacy? "Southerland, rhetorically. "Have you got three hours? Chucky taught me that it's not about where you come from, or what you have in your back pocket. It's about what you have in your heart. " - Trae Southerland
* The Chucky Mullins award banquet is held every year at the end of spring practice. It is given to a rising upcoming senior has great character and leadership.The winner of the award wears the 38 jersey the following football season.
A picture of the teams entryway into Vaught Hemingway Stadium with a bust of Chucky's head with his famous qoute.
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
|Kings of Leon|
I was on Beale St this past Saturday to see one of my new favorite bands the Kings of Leon. Before the concert started at eight o'clock that night I spent the day listening to other music at some great places. My first stop was the BB King club. Memphis is famous for blues music and BB King is one of the great blues musicians. There was a wonderful woman singing and a very old man playing bass. It was a wonderful time. I was sitting beside the stage and there was an open floor in front of it. I decided after a couple songs I needed to loosen up and I rolled in front of the stage to dance. Yes people I can still move it a little bit in my chair. I moved my chair back and forth to get a little knees swinging. And I moved my upper body to the music. I felt that set the tone for the night. I then left after the band was done and actually ran into the lady singing on the street. She told me that I had some good moves. We went a few other places and finally enjoyed a meal at Hooters. I only went there for the food people ha ha.
I then headed on to the concert in perfect time. Kings of Leon finally came out and they put on an awesome show. They sound just as good or even better live as they do on a CD. I'm sure everyone knows them for their song Use Somebody. If that is the only song you have heard and you like it I recommend you check out some more of their songs. They have a different sound which is one of the things that I love about the group. We also had a little entertainment to the right side of us that I have to share. This will also explain the picture. An older couple to the right of us were passed out while Kings of Leon was blasting. I had really good seats and the music was so loud. Everyone around us started to notice this couple and we were all laughing.
So to sum everything up the night was great. It was full of music and fun. And this couple also helped add a few extra laughs to the night. Now that's funny right there I don't care who you are!
Monday, April 4, 2011
I still remember being so nervous in my public speaking classes. I always remembered that my professor said to make sure to catch someone's attention at the very beginning and try to maintain that throughout the speech. I am hoping to do the same with my blog. I tried to do that with my beautiful background of the blog. The background is just a template that I found while developing my page. The picture that I have posted I actually got to take from the deck of a cruise ship. It is always so vivid in my mind watching the sun setting down over the water. It almost looked as if you could sail off the edge of the earth. Now that I've explained my reasoning behind the sun sets I feel the need to explain my feelings a little bit more.
A sunset is a very beautiful and peaceful reminder of the beautiful things in life that we take for granted every day. Life just seems to get so busy that we never get a chance to stop and appreciate our surroundings. I don't know about everyone else, but time seems to fly by these days. Sometimes you realize that without even knowing. You can just be driving home from work with so many thoughts going through your head. Then you suddenly look up and notice that all the clouds look like they have been painted purple, yellow and other colors that look so amazing. Whatever was on your mind just goes away for that moment to notice the beauty of life.
I realized just how much I had taken for granted after my accident. I remember being in the ICU, isolated from the outside world by walls. I finally got moved to a regular room, but I could hardly see out the window. The little bit that I could see was the top of the hospital. I finally moved to the Shepherd Center in Atlanta, a month later. I didn't see much of outside while I was strapped down to the stretcher and being put in an ambulance for the ride over. I remember getting out of the ambulance and everything was so bright to me that I didn't really get a good look of the outside world. So later on, they put me in a wheelchair for the very first time. I got to go down the hall way for a test drive. I went back into my room and noticed a window. I drove straight to the window and looked out at the trees. It was so amazing just to see life happening again. Through the trees I could see cars pulling in, and people going on with their everyday life. For that moment, I forgot about everything going on in my life. I was at complete peace, by the simple view through the window.
From that point on, until now I have made sure to take time to appreciate all the beauty surrounding us every day. My challenge to everyone is to take moments every day to look at your surroundings. Just stop and clear your mind for just a few minutes to look into the sky. Maybe you have an inside dog that just wants to go outside for a few. Watch them as they study every little inch of their surroundings even though they have checked it out 1000 times. There's just something peaceful about nature. Even during the dark stormy days you can find peacefulness with the sound of rain. You can also be fascinated by lightning as it crosses the sky. So no matter what is going on each day take a few moments to relax your mind. I hope you have your own peaceful moment.